Soulmates and what it really means

Soulmates and what it truly means in a spiritual/quantum aspect:

“Let us be like two falling stars in the day sky. Let no one know of our sublime beauty as we hold hands with God and burn into a sacred existence that defies - that surpasses every description of ecstasy and love.” ~ Hafiz, Daniel Ladinsky

Let’s talk about what’s on a lot of people’s minds: love relationships, the perfect partner, soulmates, etc.  What is the real meaning of soulmates?  Here are a few translations. 

Some think of a soulmate as a person with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, similarity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul, which is thought to be the ultimate soul mate. In New Age spirituality, the ultimate soulmate is the “one and only” other half of one's soul. 

Ancient Greece

Aristophanes presented a story about soul mates in The Symposium by Plato. It states that humans originally consisted of four arms, four legs and a single head made of two faces. Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to complete them. 


According to Theosophy (whose claims were modified by Edgar Cayce) God created androgynous souls—equally male and female. Later theories postulate that the souls split into separate genders, perhaps because they incurred karma while playing around on the Earth, or "separation from God." Over a number of reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all karmic debt is purged, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate.

Bashert: Jewish view of soulmates

Bashert is a Yiddish word that means "destiny". It is often used in the context of one's divinely foreordained spouse or soul mate, which is called "basherte" (female) or "basherter" (male). The idea of soul mates comes from statements found in classical rabbinic literature. A proverb that "marriages are made in heaven" is illustrated by a story. In modern usage, Jewish singles will say that they are looking for their bashert, meaning they are looking for that person who will complement them perfectly, and with whom they will complement perfectly. Since it’s considered to be foreordained by God whom one will marry, one's spouse is considered to be one's bashert by definition, independent of whether the couple's marital life works out well or not.

Finding our counterpart

Here is my definition of soul mates as gathered in my meditations.  This may get technical so bear with me and you will find that it was worth it (as well as answer some other questions you may have). Many people think that spirituality and the science of it is a bunch of “soft” touchy feelings that cannot be measured.  But in reality, the spirit world is guided or works with precise scientific standards much like the laws that govern the physical world. In fact, the spiritual world has much more stringent natural laws.  In the physical realm there are laws of gravity, magnetism, light etc that govern how we live our lives.  We think that these are set in stone and never change. As we learn more about these laws, the more we find out that we have been wrong in many scientific fields.  Laws we once believed have been totally revamped with the ability of new technologies. Albert Einstein’s last years were spent in anguish because he realized that most of his theories were incorrect or incomplete.  There was a new set of laws that governed the physical laws.  He was understanding the realm of quantum physics.  This is where true science occurs and object behavior is determined.  The two laws that transcend both worlds are electricity and magnetism.  Jesus talked briefly about these laws but obviously in a different manner.

So what does this have to do with soul mates?

One more definition to lay the groundwork.  In the computer world the most basic building block of any program is ones and zeros. Whether you are looking at a video, image file, or word document they are all built on a series of ones and zeros that make up everything you see and hear.  

(Don’t tune me out just yet!) You may be wondering, “What does this have to do with soulmates?”  In the spirit world the basic building block (that everything is made of-hence our physical world) is God (higher spirit). I will use the term God from now on. 

Our spirit is God’s essence vibrating at a certain frequency.  Every spirit has a particular frequency pattern, much like our fingerprints. In any religious text there is verbiage on how we were created in god’s image.  Well we were in a way.    They were not talking about the human shape.  They were talking about god’s spiritual essence.  At the frequency that we vibrate we’ve been given the ability to “create” much like God but we can never be God.  Lower frequencies for example: animals, rocks, and plants cannot create but still have god awareness (Universal Knowledge).  

In our creation we were created as a 1 or 0.  The “goal” is to get back together with our counterpart.  The connection completes the series of code needed to elevate us to higher realms (the heaven on earth). 

Our spirits are trying to find their respective soulmates. Your soulmate does not necessarily have to be your spouse, partner, etc..  According to my meditations, it can be any spiritual entity that vibrates at the same or higher frequency that completes your 1 and 0 combination.  It could be the same sex, somebody other than spouse. Although you may connect with more than one individual, there is only one soulmate that completes the circuit.  

Prior to 9/11, I had told my wife in one of my predictions that there would be a lot of mass deaths.  There will be much more of these in the future as well as strange and unusual ways to die.  Many are exiting the world because their soulmates are not in this physical realm so there is no need to stay. 

Unlike many ideologies, God did not create your soulmate, you did.  In fact God did not create anything in your reality and God will not “help” you change your reality.  Not because God is mean or uncaring but because God gave you what’s called in many scriptures “free will."

Once you find your soulmate, what happens? 

It’s like getting granted access to higher realms where there is more joy and abundance of any type.  Jesus talks about this in his 4th parable.  You can access higher realms without finding your soulmate. However once you do, you will be at an even higher realm.  

It really has nothing to do with separation from God (because you are never separated from God).  It has nothing to do with the standard definition of karma, or love or marriage.  Those blissful emotions are a much-desired by-product of our awakening.  All the world is in flux to set the stage for the next realm.  

"The appearance of 11:11 is an always beneficial act of Divine Intervention. It tells you that it is time to take a good look around you and see what is real and what is illusory. It's time to pierce the veils of illusion which keep us bound to an unreal world. You have been chosen, because you are ready, to step into a Greater Reality. To lead the way for others into a new way of living, into a Greater Love. To ascend from duality into Oneness. The 11:11 is the bridge between duality and Oneness. It is our pathway into the Unknown. " from Solara & the 11:11

I’m sorry for taking out some of the romanticism surrounding the term soulmate, but like I said in the beginning, there is a great deal of logical science in the spiritual realm that we are learning about.   The good news is that once you do find your soulmate, you will receive warm fuzzies ten-fold as well as lifting the world consciousness to higher realms.  

This article may be of some interest for further reading.

Note: I do not agree with some of the theories however for the most part it is interesting.